tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476955.post2198719241379773652..comments2024-03-27T16:29:33.089+02:00Comments on A Jewish Grandmother : How Can I Help From So Far Away?Batyahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09402874037427009327noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476955.post-36356295665392993362009-07-07T05:44:07.673+03:002009-07-07T05:44:07.673+03:00Stefanie, good idea, thanks so much for helping.Stefanie, good idea, thanks so much for helping.Batyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09402874037427009327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476955.post-69433182720909910962009-07-07T02:19:55.082+03:002009-07-07T02:19:55.082+03:00Alas, I wish I could say that was an exception but...Alas, I wish I could say that was an exception but it is more often the rule. Unfortunately we end up dealing with a crisis rather than pre-plan. My advice to you and your sister is to know what is available in your parents' area ahead of time so when a crisis does happen, you'll know what services are there to plug in. I wish you luck.Stefanienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476955.post-75392640276725020302009-07-05T22:05:59.198+03:002009-07-05T22:05:59.198+03:00Stefanie, thanks for the input. That sort of help...Stefanie, thanks for the input. That sort of help cost money, and when my daughter (a trained social worker) sent someone from an agency to see what they qualified for, the person did not receive the necessary cooperation.Batyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09402874037427009327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476955.post-60728019992523392622009-07-05T16:24:21.715+03:002009-07-05T16:24:21.715+03:00I'm a geriatric social worker and can tell you...I'm a geriatric social worker and can tell you that it is nigh impossible to move someone from their home unless it is a safety issue (when you can kind of force it)or they want to. You may be better off hiring a care manager to be the "daughter" in town and help you that way.Stefanienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476955.post-87961033076072986192009-07-02T14:41:40.650+03:002009-07-02T14:41:40.650+03:00There's no one, and their lawyer, who's a ...There's no one, and their lawyer, who's a relative won't help. I've been begging him for years.Batyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09402874037427009327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8476955.post-4929778282932734632009-07-02T11:53:19.935+03:002009-07-02T11:53:19.935+03:00My father was reluctant to leave his house. I thi...My father was reluctant to leave his house. I think the person that influenced him the most to leave and move closer to me was his rabbi. His rabbi said, you don't want someone to move you, you want to do it in your own way. And he did.<br /><br />Is there someone your parents listen to, respect, who can help convince them they are better off closer to you?Leorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12303493764579879710noreply@blogger.com