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Friday, December 14, 2007
For Shabbat

Catch It While You Can!!
Instead of my usual rushed felafel, I made a point of having a meal there and even treated myself to a piece of cake... which was so rich I couldn't even finish it.
I sat by the window and enjoyed the view. OK, you probably think I'm nuts to enjoy watching a "construction scene," but I always get a kick out of the reflections on windows.
There's a certain elegance to the restaurant, though some other diners were speaking so loudly, it was hard to control myself. I felt that I should join their conversation. The music was lovely; I tried to concentrate on that and the view.
If you can, pop in for a lovely meal or snack.
Thursday, December 13, 2007
Finally tried it out
Maybe that's because the streets are parallel. But the Aroma chain is the one similar to Hillel. Shammai 12 is something else. It's one of those "Italian" ones.
I finally tried it out not long ago.
The waitress tried to talk me out of having spinach ravioli in pesto sauce. She said that many customers are turned off by so much green, but I liked it. The only mistake was that I was at a "social occasion," the screening of Refusenik afterwards, and I kept having to clean my mouth with mint strips because of the garlic.
The location, music and food, all fine.
EDUCATION-- Read all about it!
Take a gander!
ps thanks to sara g for the correction
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
What's Your Favorite Chanukah Food?
Strange Tag
Now, strange and me, that's an easy combo. Let's start with the obvious...
- I was actually double-tagged. I just got back from the morning in the Dead Sea and was excited to see two comments to my blog, both tags. One from Babka and the other from Fern Chasida. They had both been tagged by Juggling Frogs, and they both tagged me.
- My married name (before we Hebraized it) rhymed with my "maiden" name; I went from Spiegelman to Winkelman.
- Not only isn't "muse" my real name, but Batya isn't either.
- I am one of the oldest female jbloggers. I know of one older than me, for sure.
- But most people can't tell how old I am, since I inherited good genes.
- I may be eligible for "senior discounts" before I decide what I want to do when I grow up.
- My very first TV appearance, probably before most of you were born, was on the "Allen Berk Show," the summer of 1967. If you want details, please ask... yes, it would make a great post.
And I tag: my husband, (poor guy, being married to me can't be easy,) Cosmic X, Soccer Dad, The Muqata, and Joe Settler. And please, if anyone else is interested, please, post the meme and let me know.
The Rules:
1. Link to your tagger and post these rules on your blog
2. Share 7 facts about yourself on your blog, some random, some weird
3. Tag 7 people at the end of your post by leaving their names as well as links to their blogs
4. Let them know they are TAGGED by leaving a comment on their blog
Must Get Picture CD's Organized
When my camera was new, I took some pictures at a friend's party and she said she never got them. At least I found them on the other computer. If I can't find the CD, I'll have to burn them again and email the pictures.
Other things to do now...
Tuesday, December 11, 2007
New Version of Potato Latkes
I tried a new version of the classic, raw potato Potato Latkes (pancakes.) Using my food processor, I shredded about half the potatoes, onions and a nice big carrot. Then I used the knife attachment to "chop" the rest really fine. Everything was then put in a big bowl with the eggs, seasonings and matzah meal to sop up the liquid. No, I don't pour out any liquid from the potatoes and onions, and I didn't soak the potatoes in water, nor did I bother peeling the potatoes.Everyone agreed that it was a great success! Doing it this way is the "best of both worlds."
Exact measurements? Sorry. There's really no way of measuring exactly. I'd estimate that you should have approximately twice the bulk potatoes to onions. You can add carrots and squash. This isn't some exact chemistry formulae.
And this is our traditional game. Pin the candle on the Menorah.
Monday, December 10, 2007
Murphy's after me!
Otherwise, bli eyin haraa, Murphy's pretty polite. Of course he only comes, when he does, uninvited, and I didn't invited him to today's family get-together. My Israeli kids and the grandkids, who still aren't the age to travel alone, are coming for candle-lighting, latkes and my famous vegetable soup. I also found a bag of ground fish in the freezer and made my easier than you would expect gefilte fish.
So last night, after I had wrapped all the gifts, for the big kids, too, of course, I suddenly noticed that the ceiling over the front hallway was wet. I've seen those sort of drops before... Yes, it means that the boiler is leaking. It was late at night, so I called the cellphone of our plumber, who doubles as the local synagogue's Ba'al Koreh, and was a childhood friend of my older girls... I figured I'd just let it ring a couple of times, in case he's sleeping... Good news, he answered quickly. Bad news, he's in the army, reserve duty. He promised to send someone over in the morning.
My husband decided to check it out in the attic. He climbed up and reported a small leak from the tank. How long could that have been going on? So he set up a pail underneath, and we went to sleep.
Good news, this morning, just over six hours later, it was only a third full.
And... more news when there is some...
Party's still on. Chanukah Sameach!
Sunday, December 09, 2007
Great News! You CAN Enjoy Your Latkes!
This article, from The New York Times, says that the statistics for dying are worse for the skinnies.
And don't forget that if you don't eat enough cholesterol, your body will overproduce it. Don't forget to stay active, and I don't mean reaching for seconds, thirds and more.
Stress is also a killer, so if all the dieting is making you "nuts," it's not a healthy diet.
Now, after exercising to an anti-osteoporosis DVD, and too much sitting by the computer, I'm off for a walk, and I'll buy some sour cream for the latkes.
A healthy baby was always enough for me
The only presents were for the baby, besides flowers and hand cream if you were lucky. Before my third was born, I went shopping and bought myself a new hat and a bathrobe. Really, what else could I get myself in the middle of my tenth month?
It never occurred to me to expect or hint for fancy jewelry, like these mothers got. A healthy baby is sure worth more than all the diamonds in the world.
Friday, December 07, 2007
How do You Light Your Chanukah Menorah?
I must credit Lakewood Venter for starting me on this thread.
My husband still prefers the "no muss, no fuss" candles, but years ago, here in Israel, of course, I got hooked on olive oil.
One year my in-laws were visiting from New York, and we were also having other guests, and the kids were getting older, and I had to buy a slew of new Chanukiyot, so I took the plunge and bought a bunch of simple oil Chanukiyot. The first year was great fun, but the next year I had to replace some of the little glass holders, and the next year some more. Before I knew it we had every size and shape and many blackened with oily soot.
Some years we tried to save money and bought "special cheap light only olive oil. I should have been suspicious at the "not for food consumption" label. Well, I'd say that they shouldn't be lit either. The smell and black smoke, and bright green color all mean that there's something in there that didn't grow on a tree.
This is how it stands, about how I light:
I light real olive in oil and set a unraveling wick in a metallic-coated piece of cardboard, I have lots of oil pots, all different sizes, but some of the oil pots are too small, so I cut the cardboard, but if I cut the cardboard too small it sinks...
Chag Orim Sameach, Have a Light-Filled Holiday!
Last Night
Thursday, December 06, 2007
"E" is for Education and Eating
There's a great new edition for the Carnival of Education, worth reading the links, and don't forget to send me links for the Kosher Cooking Carnival, the more the merrier, as long as it's Kosher! And if you want to host one, please write to shilohmuse at gmail dot com. Thanks!
Really ought to go to sleep
Usual busy morning, writing, laundry, a bissel cleaning--not my specialty.
Then work, proctored two long tests...
Will post pic's bli neder in the future.
Then a wedding, friends' first grandchild. They've entered another stage.
Will post pic's bli neder in the future.
Past my bedtime...
Tuesday, December 04, 2007
Panic!!!
While showering, I suddenly noticed that my grandmother's earring wasn't in my ear.
I have three holes for earrings. Two in one ear, and one in the other. My daughters had the third one done as a birthday present for me almost ten years ago. I love the lack of symmetry, and it's great for single remaining earrings, missing their partners. For the past few months, I've had my maternal grandmother's earring in the extra hole, and then I just add a matching pair in the other two holes.
When I discovered that it wasn't there, I was in no condition to run and look. I checked what I could in the bathroom and then calmed myself down. It's not a limb, an eye or anything dangerous to my health. It's not like I discovered someone close to me was dead or dying. Either I'd find it, or I won't.
I had my ears pierced when I was almost sixteen, after close to ten years of begging my mother for permission. A couple of weeks later, we were visiting my Aunt Sadie, and she presented me with two pairs of earrings, which had belonged to my grandmother. Why to me? I don't know. I'm not the oldest granddaughter, and two were born after me, and after her death when I was almost three, who are named after her. But for some reason my aunt, who had never married nor had any children of her own, decided that I should get the earrings. I wasn't yet religious, but I was very involved in Jewish youth activities, being at that time a regional officer in NCSY, but I don't know how aware the family was of my status. Even though the time, when I was told it would be safe to remove my first earrings hadn't passed, I quickly put them on. I've worn them a lot over the decades, like in this picture.
Being pretty sure I hadn't taken the earrings off the night before, I remembered that I had once found an earring, from my other grandmother, in bed. It had somehow opened up and fallen off when I was sleeping.
Just yesterday, when I was already in Shiloh, almost home, talking to a friend who had gotten the same ride, but she needed one direction and me the opposite. So we chatted. Then a neighbor who lives right near by stopped in his car to ask if I wanted to get in a go home. I did and told him that I was glad that they have a new car, big enough for the whole family. Those of us who have lived in Shiloh a long time are still, and will always be, traumatized by the terrible car accident of the Deutsch Family. The father, HaRav Shlomo, and half of their children were killed in a terrible accident. The whole family had been squeezed into a tiny car.
So how could I obsess over an earring, even my grandmother's earring? I'm sure that she would have been the first to tell me that health is most important.
I didn't rush into my room to check to see if it was in my jewelry box or on the sheet someplace. Yes, that's where it was. Easy to spot, right there on the sheet. I guess my grandmother wanted to remind me of what's really important.
Chag Orim Sameach
Have a Wonderful, Light-Filled, and Very Healthy Chanukah
Monday, December 03, 2007
"In America It's Sunday"
Yes, I've been in Israel a long time. In Hebrew, Sunday is called יום ראשון Yom Rishon, the First Day, since it's the first day of the working week. It's starts bright and early with post-weekend traffic jams.
It looks like Soccer Dad spent his day, not being a Sunday "soccer dad," but by being the premier jblogger and putting together the latest Havel Havelim. I guess one can say that HH is one of his "babies."
Thanks, Soccer Dad, for the great job and all the care to us jbloggers all over.
Sunday, December 02, 2007
Beautiful and Inspiring!

She opened a link and two dancers, a man and a woman, began dancing a ballet duet. Let me just say that they're not your typical dancers. They're both disabled. One disability is easy to spot, and the other, less so.
The name of their dance is "Hand in Hand," rather ironic in a sense. They won a dance contest, and the other contestants were not disabled. If you haven't done so yet, click here, watch and read about Ma Li and Zhai Xiaowei.
Saturday, December 01, 2007
Thank G-d, Better
But Baruch Hashem, thank G-d, I'm feeling better. The 24 hours have passed, and by tomorrow it'll be 48 and back to business.
